Tuesday morning, sitting at my desk at work.
It is weird, coming in to "work," amongst soon-to-be former co-workers; all of them not sure exactly how to handle having me amongst them, and me involved with almost none of the day-to-day operations of the company. My termination letter actually states that - although I need to remain available to hep with transition of duties - my primary focus is expected to be getting a job. B.B. is offering multiple classes, daily, with names that - remember - would have made me cringe throughout my adult life but now I must go in with a new attitude. Classes like "LinkedIn for Beginners" and "Branding-U." I also went through a couple of sessions yesterday to try and make sense of how my benefits will work over the next year. You know, roll the 401k into a "Traditional" or "Roth" IRA; divest my company stock? (here's my stock tip - if you have BB stock right now - keep it), will the COBRA package that they're picking up the bill on be considered taxable income next tax time? All those annoying, painful financial "life" things that I hate to consider.
But, in the end, everything is optional. So, I can get up without an alarm clock, and just make sure I'm in here in time for my first session of the day, and pretty much head out at the end of the last session, which may be early in the afternoon or not. And do various job search-related activities in between. Or I can choose to not come in at all. Everyone's so gun-shy about trying to ask me for anything, there's really nothing work-related for me to do. And I just pass along every email request I get. At some point, there's going to be a couple of meetings where I truly do the "knowledge transfer" with respect to a lot of the processes I, alone, managed. But I've got a heckuva lot of freedom over this coming month.
Yesterday, after my last session at 1 pm, I headed home to work (on homework from my career counselor) from my computer there. In other times - this is the lifestyle for me. As it is, living life to the fullest is a bit crimped. Psychologically, there's a bit of a wet blanket over anything. But also - there's little things like "no coffeeshops." Our unofficial budget (we haven't had the chance to sit down and line it all out in Quicken yet) allows only for coffee, sans-pastry, in one family visit on Saturday mornings. So I've been French Pressing it every morning & bringing in the travel mug. So, in short, no hanging out at the coffee shop on my free afternoons.
Working from home, I was trying to assemble the myriad handouts I've gotten from Cindy (the cc), and try to start assembling names for my "network," and do a couple of other things - and also kind of prepare for a job fair they've got happening here at work tomorrow (outside employers), when I had a minor freak-out. I think it got better, but mainly cause I just shut down after that and switched gears to greeting my family after Sharon got home with the girls. I did not return to job stuff after that.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Sunday, February 22, 2009
First of Numerous Check-Ins
Something I've kind of determined I'm going to do: try to stay on a semi-regular blogging schedule in order to sort of tie down various strands that are floating about in these uncertain times and kind of "get my story straight" for you guys. In and amidst a phone call I may make here and there, there may be some repeating of some stuff from time to time, but I think getting stuff down in the written word can help coalesce what is sometimes only lurking in the shadows of one's minute-to-minute conscious thought. Plus - you all know that bouncing things off friends is one of the ways I work myself through a lot of life's shit. So please - chime in if you have any thoughts, at any point.
So - Thursday night (the night after the layoff), I was surprised (though perhaps I shouldn't have been) to have an utterly fitful and sleepless night. One of my worst ever; especially considering I'd not had a great night of sleep the night before and was drowsy while hanging out with my family earlier in the day. This is a difficult thing for me to admit in light of all the anti-corporate & "Barad-Dur" talk through all the years, but I'd invested a fair amount of my energy & attention into this last job. I mean, it demanded a lot of me, and over time, that will tend to suck you in, to a point. And without going into too much detail about "the value I added to the business," I will say that it was truly a surprise to me that I was among those let go; and - dammit - it did feel like a slap in the face. So - after an awesome, chummy evening where Gibbs & I hung out on the phone for a while, I suffered through a hellish night where my brain simply would not turn off. I slept for two hours. I know a lot of people will say they slept for two hours and they maybe don't really know. But truly - I slept for two hours, no more.
I'd thought about going into work the next day (remember, they're keeping me on for a month), but after the night I had - fuck that. I had, wisely, pre-scheduled an appointment with my career counselor for this day. By the way - did I mention that I've been seeing a career counselor for a little over a month? Related - and, in fact, driving that whole talk of future scenarios (including the one about beinga sexy librarian).
I decided to wear my dumpy "unemployment clothes" (my 1994-era Timberwolves sweatshirt and a pair of gray cargo pants), and spent little time beforehand in a local library checking out the "career center." I was filing through some of the printouts talking about "networking" groups meeting in local churches and resume-writing classes offered by the State of Minnesota, when realized I actually had some tears near-welling up in my eyes. Kind of perfect storm of the exhaustion, the layoff, the prospect of my family of four having just lost our lifeline, and me, sitting here at age 38, thinking, "so, it's come to this." That was kind of the low daytime point I've had so far.
In my meeting with Cindy (my c. counselor) not long after, she was offering me some pretty hopeful overall assessments; in addition to sort of giving me permission to be easy on myself for a few days, she also assured me that, with my six-month (seven-month, if you consider the month of remaining employment) severence, I have time to "do this right" (her words). My newish dream of being librarian (children's book specialist) or school librarian - she told me point blank, "this is not just a dream - this is very do-able." The whole thing is about not ever accepting a job again that is just kind of repeating the cycle of getting something that is not moving me towards a goal, but simply not quite crappy enough to leave. More on this later, but my next few steps involve finding out the difference between what my perception is of the job requirements of a number of occupations, and what job listings actually say. That, and starting a major "networking" effort. I tell you, there is so much for me to unlearn. The idea of and even the word "networking" has always made me cringe. But looking at how close I am to where I want to be career-wise, 15+ years out of college, has got me considering I might not be entirely unlike George Costanza in that episode where he decided to start doing the exact opposite of every single inclination he had, and things suddenly started looking up.
This is getting a little long, but it was a crazy first few days. I will say that Sharon & I, with the assistance of a babysitter, were able to get away for a great talk for a couple of hours on Saturday, and I've found her to be a lot more willing to consider multiple scenarios (some of which involve her back in the workforce and Rosie going to Lucy's school), than I had worried she might be. And I've slept better each night since Thursday, though I'm sort of feeling like tonight might be a bit of a setback, as I'll be setting foot back in that place again, tomorrow. It's going to be a really weird feeling, and a little humiliating to walk back to my cube amongst my co-workers. Dead man walking.
But I'm expected to be there, for most of the days at least, in order to receive my severence. Plus, they are actually offering a number of outplacement resources, on-campus, as many of which I will avail myself as I am able. Other than that, I'll be forwarding along a lot of emails and saying, "My last days is..." and "...you'll need to talk to..." and/or simply deleting them; and doing career counseling "homework" with impunity. And getting up without an alarm clock every day. And wearing jeans every day. And not eating out.
Anyway - that's check in one. All the other check-ins will probably be much shorter.
So - Thursday night (the night after the layoff), I was surprised (though perhaps I shouldn't have been) to have an utterly fitful and sleepless night. One of my worst ever; especially considering I'd not had a great night of sleep the night before and was drowsy while hanging out with my family earlier in the day. This is a difficult thing for me to admit in light of all the anti-corporate & "Barad-Dur" talk through all the years, but I'd invested a fair amount of my energy & attention into this last job. I mean, it demanded a lot of me, and over time, that will tend to suck you in, to a point. And without going into too much detail about "the value I added to the business," I will say that it was truly a surprise to me that I was among those let go; and - dammit - it did feel like a slap in the face. So - after an awesome, chummy evening where Gibbs & I hung out on the phone for a while, I suffered through a hellish night where my brain simply would not turn off. I slept for two hours. I know a lot of people will say they slept for two hours and they maybe don't really know. But truly - I slept for two hours, no more.
I'd thought about going into work the next day (remember, they're keeping me on for a month), but after the night I had - fuck that. I had, wisely, pre-scheduled an appointment with my career counselor for this day. By the way - did I mention that I've been seeing a career counselor for a little over a month? Related - and, in fact, driving that whole talk of future scenarios (including the one about beinga sexy librarian).
I decided to wear my dumpy "unemployment clothes" (my 1994-era Timberwolves sweatshirt and a pair of gray cargo pants), and spent little time beforehand in a local library checking out the "career center." I was filing through some of the printouts talking about "networking" groups meeting in local churches and resume-writing classes offered by the State of Minnesota, when realized I actually had some tears near-welling up in my eyes. Kind of perfect storm of the exhaustion, the layoff, the prospect of my family of four having just lost our lifeline, and me, sitting here at age 38, thinking, "so, it's come to this." That was kind of the low daytime point I've had so far.
In my meeting with Cindy (my c. counselor) not long after, she was offering me some pretty hopeful overall assessments; in addition to sort of giving me permission to be easy on myself for a few days, she also assured me that, with my six-month (seven-month, if you consider the month of remaining employment) severence, I have time to "do this right" (her words). My newish dream of being librarian (children's book specialist) or school librarian - she told me point blank, "this is not just a dream - this is very do-able." The whole thing is about not ever accepting a job again that is just kind of repeating the cycle of getting something that is not moving me towards a goal, but simply not quite crappy enough to leave. More on this later, but my next few steps involve finding out the difference between what my perception is of the job requirements of a number of occupations, and what job listings actually say. That, and starting a major "networking" effort. I tell you, there is so much for me to unlearn. The idea of and even the word "networking" has always made me cringe. But looking at how close I am to where I want to be career-wise, 15+ years out of college, has got me considering I might not be entirely unlike George Costanza in that episode where he decided to start doing the exact opposite of every single inclination he had, and things suddenly started looking up.
This is getting a little long, but it was a crazy first few days. I will say that Sharon & I, with the assistance of a babysitter, were able to get away for a great talk for a couple of hours on Saturday, and I've found her to be a lot more willing to consider multiple scenarios (some of which involve her back in the workforce and Rosie going to Lucy's school), than I had worried she might be. And I've slept better each night since Thursday, though I'm sort of feeling like tonight might be a bit of a setback, as I'll be setting foot back in that place again, tomorrow. It's going to be a really weird feeling, and a little humiliating to walk back to my cube amongst my co-workers. Dead man walking.
But I'm expected to be there, for most of the days at least, in order to receive my severence. Plus, they are actually offering a number of outplacement resources, on-campus, as many of which I will avail myself as I am able. Other than that, I'll be forwarding along a lot of emails and saying, "My last days is..." and "...you'll need to talk to..." and/or simply deleting them; and doing career counseling "homework" with impunity. And getting up without an alarm clock every day. And wearing jeans every day. And not eating out.
Anyway - that's check in one. All the other check-ins will probably be much shorter.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
The Hammer Drops
I was just let go. My last day of employment will be the 23rd of March. They're theoretically "...transitioning away from the kind of work" I do, which I suspect may be a little more difficult than they currently believe, once I'm gone - but I'm going to have a lot of flexibility to come & go & job search with imputity on work time over the next 30 days.
More as my "throwing my hat into the ring" story develops.
More as my "throwing my hat into the ring" story develops.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
In Other News...
Tomorrow is the day when I find out if I still have a job. Having gone through a "voluntary" round of job reductions, my company now has determined that they need to take that next step - and we've all been waiting about a month and a half for this day of gloom.
Even if stay on, many others will have their employment involuntarily terminated - it's going to be awful.
Get on the Bus!
Ever have a movie that you’ve felt you *should* see, but one that stayed in that status, unseen, for a decade or more?
For me, one of those movies was “Get on the Bus.” Finally saw it last night. 12+ years on my “to see” list, about two years in my Netflix queue, and then at least four weeks sitting in my living room.
I know I'm supposed to be working towards not obligating myself with "shoulds," but in this case, at least, it became a matter of pride. Sending the movie back to Netflix after coming so far in this particular journey would have been like dropping out of a 25k trail run within sight of the finish line.
For me, one of those movies was “Get on the Bus.” Finally saw it last night. 12+ years on my “to see” list, about two years in my Netflix queue, and then at least four weeks sitting in my living room.
I know I'm supposed to be working towards not obligating myself with "shoulds," but in this case, at least, it became a matter of pride. Sending the movie back to Netflix after coming so far in this particular journey would have been like dropping out of a 25k trail run within sight of the finish line.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
the low-down
I'm about nine days out from finding out whether I'm among the involuntary layoffs. But...only indirectly related to that - I've been in career counseling sessions for the past month.
Here's the deal: I love geography, and continue to love geography. But, unless you go into a career as an academic research geographer, almost any career in the field is going to be very GIS-heavy. And I've begun to wonder in recent years whether I really do want to spend my middle age and older working years jockeying to stay on top of the latest technology.
A recent skills assessment and some soul-searching has caused the field of "library science" to rise to the top. I'm in the process of conducting some "informational interviews" with people in the field and who've gone through a graduate program at the College of St. Kate's (in St. Paul), and will be attending an informational session at the end of the month.
Much more soul-searching needs to be done. If I manage to ride out this impending round of layoffs, I need to answer the following questions for myself:
on one hand:
- Am I looking a gift horse in the mouth? (I've got the best job I've ever had; albeit, in a field that makes my heart grow cold. But we can pay all the bills and slowly pay off debt, and Sharon doesn't even have to work. Plus, I'm doing work I generally enjoy, can blog & listen to NPR, and and make maps pretty much all day)
- Do I really have the motivation (and finances) to embark upon another attempt at a graduate to enter a field with God-knows-what employment prospects.
on the other hand:
- The opportunity to working in a career where a voracious interest in the accumulation of useless knowledge and a near-insane drive to catalog and file is rewarded?
- The opportunity to work in the public sector and maybe even incorporate the "programming" aspect of Sharon's old job at the nature center that I always thought I'd enjoy.
on the third hand:
- Something I can do with my background in geography that might allow me to make my escape from retail once and for all, and maybe pull me just a bit away from technology a bit. The other aspect of my searching about.
Anyway - that's what this is all about. I'm in a rather insane period of waffling and roller-coastering right now. And I set a high-bar to begin with. I'm 100% for something one moment, then fretting and losing sleep over that idea later the same night. As I said to Mixx today - and though it was in relation to something a little difference, it is tied to this same current phase of insanity - and is perhaps one of my best self-assessments ever:
I am a little boat, far out at sea, continually buffeted about by the alternating winds of motivation and malaise.
Here's the deal: I love geography, and continue to love geography. But, unless you go into a career as an academic research geographer, almost any career in the field is going to be very GIS-heavy. And I've begun to wonder in recent years whether I really do want to spend my middle age and older working years jockeying to stay on top of the latest technology.
A recent skills assessment and some soul-searching has caused the field of "library science" to rise to the top. I'm in the process of conducting some "informational interviews" with people in the field and who've gone through a graduate program at the College of St. Kate's (in St. Paul), and will be attending an informational session at the end of the month.
Much more soul-searching needs to be done. If I manage to ride out this impending round of layoffs, I need to answer the following questions for myself:
on one hand:
- Am I looking a gift horse in the mouth? (I've got the best job I've ever had; albeit, in a field that makes my heart grow cold. But we can pay all the bills and slowly pay off debt, and Sharon doesn't even have to work. Plus, I'm doing work I generally enjoy, can blog & listen to NPR, and and make maps pretty much all day)
- Do I really have the motivation (and finances) to embark upon another attempt at a graduate to enter a field with God-knows-what employment prospects.
on the other hand:
- The opportunity to working in a career where a voracious interest in the accumulation of useless knowledge and a near-insane drive to catalog and file is rewarded?
- The opportunity to work in the public sector and maybe even incorporate the "programming" aspect of Sharon's old job at the nature center that I always thought I'd enjoy.
on the third hand:
- Something I can do with my background in geography that might allow me to make my escape from retail once and for all, and maybe pull me just a bit away from technology a bit. The other aspect of my searching about.
Anyway - that's what this is all about. I'm in a rather insane period of waffling and roller-coastering right now. And I set a high-bar to begin with. I'm 100% for something one moment, then fretting and losing sleep over that idea later the same night. As I said to Mixx today - and though it was in relation to something a little difference, it is tied to this same current phase of insanity - and is perhaps one of my best self-assessments ever:
I am a little boat, far out at sea, continually buffeted about by the alternating winds of motivation and malaise.
Monday, February 09, 2009
Welcome Back, Pot-Stirrer...
Well, it's looking like I might be about to pursue a career as a librarian.
Monday, February 02, 2009
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Saturday, January 17, 2009
The Smooch Project Redux
Lucy Luvs RoseEntire gallery here. Copies are insanely expensive, but man - some of these photos are good. We could never get a school photo that good in a million years. Not just the photo quality, but the sentiment, and the fact they're both in there together.
I'll mention again - whenever you're feeling down, just visit www.thesmoochproject.com. It's impossible to get kissed on the cheek and not feel silly and good. The most hardened heart cannot. It's just such a wholesome, lovely expression of affection. It's just fun to flip through picture after picture of people so obviously enjoying the company of somebody close to them.
I'm glad that everyone who reads this blog has people who love them.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
THOK! (in the Northern Hemisphere)
Dislocated my pinkie finger again. This time, the other hand, actually.
Over the weekend, Sharon was having a momma-daughter day with Lucy, and I was having a daddy-daughter day with Rose. Things were going famously. I was in the midst of teaching Rosie to ice skate, when I went down fast and hard, right onto my pinkie finger.
However hard it was, two years ago, when I had to get Lucy out of the house, into the car, and with me to the Urgent Care Clinic; consider that this time, I had to get a bundled-up Rose off of an ice-skating rink (along with a little chair she was using for balance), into a warming house, and actually change out of my ice skates and into shoes, one-handed. Then out, across the snow and to my car with Rose, buckling her up and getting on the road.
A sickening feeling, having my finger in this crumpled and distorted state for a long period of time. Rose was about as helpful as she could be:
Dan: "Rosie - daddy needs you to go AsFastAsYouCan!"
Rosie: "I AM going FastAsCan!"
We got to the hospital and the wait wasn't all that long. I did having the passing thought, right before the doctor reset the finger, "Hmm...didn't they give me something to deaden the pain last time?" The, Pop! And I let out an unexpected howl. Sonofabitch. That hurts. That and rolling an ankle. The lingering effects seem to have gotten generally better through the years, but the inital pain never does.
Anyway, so much for my new jazz piano hobby for at least a couple of weeks. And - oh - yeah, this was also quite certainly not the best week to start my new wakeup league basketball season.
Over the weekend, Sharon was having a momma-daughter day with Lucy, and I was having a daddy-daughter day with Rose. Things were going famously. I was in the midst of teaching Rosie to ice skate, when I went down fast and hard, right onto my pinkie finger.
However hard it was, two years ago, when I had to get Lucy out of the house, into the car, and with me to the Urgent Care Clinic; consider that this time, I had to get a bundled-up Rose off of an ice-skating rink (along with a little chair she was using for balance), into a warming house, and actually change out of my ice skates and into shoes, one-handed. Then out, across the snow and to my car with Rose, buckling her up and getting on the road.
A sickening feeling, having my finger in this crumpled and distorted state for a long period of time. Rose was about as helpful as she could be:
Dan: "Rosie - daddy needs you to go AsFastAsYouCan!"
Rosie: "I AM going FastAsCan!"
We got to the hospital and the wait wasn't all that long. I did having the passing thought, right before the doctor reset the finger, "Hmm...didn't they give me something to deaden the pain last time?" The, Pop! And I let out an unexpected howl. Sonofabitch. That hurts. That and rolling an ankle. The lingering effects seem to have gotten generally better through the years, but the inital pain never does.
Anyway, so much for my new jazz piano hobby for at least a couple of weeks. And - oh - yeah, this was also quite certainly not the best week to start my new wakeup league basketball season.
Monday, January 12, 2009
Ex-CI-ted!!!
We're having a bit of a blizzard in these parts today, so I headed home early to avoid the evening commute. And what did I find a-waiting me in the mailbox, special delivery from Methuen MA?
ONLY THE MOCKAPALOOZA, THAT'S WHAT!!!
Seriously, folks. I cannot remember a time when I've been looking forward to something coming in the mail quite so much. This is what it's all about. Tomfoolery, created out of pure love of the sport of it all, and sent out for enjoyment amongst friends.
Mixx, I appreciate the re-mastering of the T.T. mock. I could be proven way, way wrong here, but I did feel like there was a lot of funny stuff in there that was just a little too inscrutable as a result of the background dialog being so high, last time around.
Anyway - I've got a busy-ish schedule going on these days (evenings), so I'm not sure how much time I have to set aside for it all, but MAN - I can't imagine I will not pop one of the suckers in tonight, if just for a little while.
On an aside...FAR be it from me to look a gift horse in the mouth, but I was just a teeny bit let down that P.M.; above all of us a master of Photoshop, did not include j-cards. But I know a lot of work goes into getting things to this point (for something that is ultimately going to be enjoyed a number of people that can be counted on one hand of Bart Simpson), and I totally know the feeling of, "Jesus Christ! Enough of this!!!"
ONLY THE MOCKAPALOOZA, THAT'S WHAT!!!
Seriously, folks. I cannot remember a time when I've been looking forward to something coming in the mail quite so much. This is what it's all about. Tomfoolery, created out of pure love of the sport of it all, and sent out for enjoyment amongst friends.
Mixx, I appreciate the re-mastering of the T.T. mock. I could be proven way, way wrong here, but I did feel like there was a lot of funny stuff in there that was just a little too inscrutable as a result of the background dialog being so high, last time around.
Anyway - I've got a busy-ish schedule going on these days (evenings), so I'm not sure how much time I have to set aside for it all, but MAN - I can't imagine I will not pop one of the suckers in tonight, if just for a little while.
On an aside...FAR be it from me to look a gift horse in the mouth, but I was just a teeny bit let down that P.M.; above all of us a master of Photoshop, did not include j-cards. But I know a lot of work goes into getting things to this point (for something that is ultimately going to be enjoyed a number of people that can be counted on one hand of Bart Simpson), and I totally know the feeling of, "Jesus Christ! Enough of this!!!"
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
In One Word
1. Where is your cell phone? elsewhere
2. Your significant other? smart
3. Your job? maps
4. Shoes you are wearing? frayed
5. Your father? patriarch
6. Your favorite thing? daughters
7. Your dream last night? gone
8. Your favorite drink? Bender
9. Your dream/goal? un-working?
10. Room you're in now? computer
11. Your fear? vasectomies
12. Where you want to be in 6 years? Minneapolis
13. Where you were last night? piano
14. What you are not? snivelling
15. Muffins? yup
16. One of wish list items? iPod
17. Where did you grow up? Minneapolis
18. The last thing you did? bedtime(s)
19. What you are wearing? p.j.s
20. Your TV? flat
21. Your pet? Rocky
22. Your computer? stationary
23. Your life? blessed
24. Your mood? anticipatory
25. Missing someone? nope
26. Your car? '98
27. Something you are not wearing? Sketchers
28. Favorite store? HUB
29. Favorite color? green
30. Favorite place? boreal
31. Last time you laughed? Recently
32. Last time you cried? December?
33. Who will/would repost this? Stephen
34. Four places I go over and over again? (a) cubicle (b) Steamworks (c) TheOnion.com (d) Iowa
35. Four people who email me? (a) mom (b) Howard Dean (not so much now) (c) Luitpold Tarwater (d) Pat
36. Four favorite foods?(a) donuts (b) pbj (c) strawberries (d) pie
37. Four places I would rather be right now?(a) Dakota (b) hoopin' (c) England (d) Hyland
38. Four people you think will respond?(a) Stephen (b) Pat (c) Aaron (d) Clogger
2. Your significant other? smart
3. Your job? maps
4. Shoes you are wearing? frayed
5. Your father? patriarch
6. Your favorite thing? daughters
7. Your dream last night? gone
8. Your favorite drink? Bender
9. Your dream/goal? un-working?
10. Room you're in now? computer
11. Your fear? vasectomies
12. Where you want to be in 6 years? Minneapolis
13. Where you were last night? piano
14. What you are not? snivelling
15. Muffins? yup
16. One of wish list items? iPod
17. Where did you grow up? Minneapolis
18. The last thing you did? bedtime(s)
19. What you are wearing? p.j.s
20. Your TV? flat
21. Your pet? Rocky
22. Your computer? stationary
23. Your life? blessed
24. Your mood? anticipatory
25. Missing someone? nope
26. Your car? '98
27. Something you are not wearing? Sketchers
28. Favorite store? HUB
29. Favorite color? green
30. Favorite place? boreal
31. Last time you laughed? Recently
32. Last time you cried? December?
33. Who will/would repost this? Stephen
34. Four places I go over and over again? (a) cubicle (b) Steamworks (c) TheOnion.com (d) Iowa
35. Four people who email me? (a) mom (b) Howard Dean (not so much now) (c) Luitpold Tarwater (d) Pat
36. Four favorite foods?(a) donuts (b) pbj (c) strawberries (d) pie
37. Four places I would rather be right now?(a) Dakota (b) hoopin' (c) England (d) Hyland
38. Four people you think will respond?(a) Stephen (b) Pat (c) Aaron (d) Clogger
Saturday, January 03, 2009
Monday, December 29, 2008
GroundDan Looks Out of His Burrow, Sees Ice, and Forecasts Three More Months of Craptastic Running
It's really the perfect storm of precipitation (so to speak) and a series freeze-thaw cycles that have contributed to the worst layer of ice over Minnesota paths, fields, and roadways that I have seen in my time here. Worthy of Iowa, really.
The condition of things was evident over the week and a half preceding Christmas, which saw the largest number of consecutive terrible commute times I can remember. There was a particular two-day stretch in which we got about three inches of rain, followed by temperatures that dropped to about minus-11. So, obviously, we have a thick layer of ice covering all open, previously melted areas. Then it was followed by a greasy layer of frozen exhaust ("black ice," they call it). Followed by another couple of snows and drizzles, a fog, and another freeze.
The amount of salt Minneapolis uses on its roadways is crazy - crazy-bad for cars and nearby flora. Although I gotta say, under normal conditions, it ends up clearing out the roads and paths; these are not normal conditions, and there's been just no keeping up. And once you get outside the boundaries of Minneapolis, proper (say, for a run from work), things really get dicey. And likely won't clear up till March. Worse, are trails through the woods, which remain snowy and slippery through March under normal conditions. But again, these are not normal conditions. I could be doing snowy trail runs in mid-April, which is when the snow-breast hung around til.
I've made the decision to use a recently-purchased pair of trail running shoes that were intended to be used as my everyday-shoes for only running in snow/ice and/or on trails. Armed with those and a new pair of running gloves I got for Christmas, I did a noontime run from work today. It's sunny and 33 - which made a slippery situation even more slippery. I spent much more time high-stepping it through the slushy snow than I did on roads & paths, but - on the bright side - that makes for a tremendous, if quite different, workout.
That's about all I have to say about that.
The condition of things was evident over the week and a half preceding Christmas, which saw the largest number of consecutive terrible commute times I can remember. There was a particular two-day stretch in which we got about three inches of rain, followed by temperatures that dropped to about minus-11. So, obviously, we have a thick layer of ice covering all open, previously melted areas. Then it was followed by a greasy layer of frozen exhaust ("black ice," they call it). Followed by another couple of snows and drizzles, a fog, and another freeze.
The amount of salt Minneapolis uses on its roadways is crazy - crazy-bad for cars and nearby flora. Although I gotta say, under normal conditions, it ends up clearing out the roads and paths; these are not normal conditions, and there's been just no keeping up. And once you get outside the boundaries of Minneapolis, proper (say, for a run from work), things really get dicey. And likely won't clear up till March. Worse, are trails through the woods, which remain snowy and slippery through March under normal conditions. But again, these are not normal conditions. I could be doing snowy trail runs in mid-April, which is when the snow-breast hung around til.
I've made the decision to use a recently-purchased pair of trail running shoes that were intended to be used as my everyday-shoes for only running in snow/ice and/or on trails. Armed with those and a new pair of running gloves I got for Christmas, I did a noontime run from work today. It's sunny and 33 - which made a slippery situation even more slippery. I spent much more time high-stepping it through the slushy snow than I did on roads & paths, but - on the bright side - that makes for a tremendous, if quite different, workout.
That's about all I have to say about that.
Just a Quick Rumination on the Bailing Out of Big Industry
...from automakers to financial institutions to retail developers...and not that I'm even necessarily against the bailouts, but...
I wonder how often these CEOs, have, in their entire personal lives until this point in history, decried the bailing out of ANYBODY by the government.
I wonder how often these CEOs, have, in their entire personal lives until this point in history, decried the bailing out of ANYBODY by the government.
Saturday, December 20, 2008
The Flagging Economy Meets "The Seven Year Itch"
For those of you who aren't in the know, this economic crisis has hit "the retail sector" about as hard as any industry outside of housing and, maybe, automobiles. The company I work for, having beaten back every competitor in sight, has finally come up against a foe which is its match; and the worst two months of retail in recorded history has taken its toll. The great Big Buy is cutting labor.
To its credit - an offer has been made to every one of the four and a half thousand employees in the corporate office in which I work, giving us the chance to take a voluntary severance package which is nearly unheard of in any company, anywhere. In my position, at my pay grade, this would mean seven and a half months of salary, in addition to a year's worth of benefits continuation. Amazing, and - a couple of years ago - a possible no-brainer.
Unfortunately, were I to take the offer now, it would be into what kind of job climate, with what sort of prospects? In a good economy, I fear my ability to make a lateral move and make a salary anywhere near what I have labored over building up over my past seven years at my current place of work. While I have not gotten well-to-do (by U.S. standards), it has allowed Sharon to stay at home with Rose and for us to have a general expectation of being able to meet our financial obligations, month-to-month. At present, my plan is to sit tight and not opt for the vluntary termination; and to desperately hope that enough others do in order to avoid the following eventuality of the involuntary round of layoffs. Things working in my favor is my - by all reasonable estimation - unique function and role of support in the company, as well as the relative pittance I am paid, compared to the innumerable "directors" and "project managers" that have been aquired and shuffled around in this extremely top-heavy building in my time here.
So - if things go well for me and I'm here in another two months, then what? It's no secret that - comfortable as I am - corporate culture is just something to which I'm not hard-wired to assimilate. In addition, though I love geography and - indeed - a large part of what I do, day to day; I fear a future in which my career path is inextricably bound to my ablility to seek out and master new technologies. What I have come to understand about GIS over time is that my love leans about 90% towards the first letter of that acronym, and about 10% towards the second two. I am, at heart, an old-fashioned academic, who would much rather be reading in an old, leather-bound chair, than walking about with a bluetooth headset sticking out of my ear discussion with a regional sales rep the extensions for the latest service pack of ArcGIS 9.6. That's no way for a man - a man like me - to enter the second half of his working adult life.
If I get involuntarily laid off, my severance package comes with an extensive set of services with an outplacement firm; one that specializes in putting you on the fast track to something-or-rather and all kinds of buzzwords that ordinarily make my skin craw. But a firm of which I will totally avail myself in order to get some type of GIS job that will get me back in the ranks of the employed.
In the meantime - this was a bonfire under my ass (where, earlier this year, there was but a spark). Volumes of research support the theory that the notorious "seven-year itch" is not mere cockahooery, but an actual, verifiable rhythm to our lives. I got out of college at 23. At around 30, I made a career change into the GIS field. Now, at 37, that may be about to run its course. In looking at where my life may go from here, Sharon advises me that when I start exploring my options, I need to start by thinking about what I really want to do, not what I reasonably think I could get. And then take the steps I need to get there. As opposed to, say, when I went back to graduate school to get an MGIS because I happened to be in the GIS field and was feeling inadequate because I didn't have a degree to prove I belonged.
I spoke for awhile today with a career coach, and will be meeting with her on January 8 for the first of what will probably be a number of sessions. More to follow, undoubtedly.
To its credit - an offer has been made to every one of the four and a half thousand employees in the corporate office in which I work, giving us the chance to take a voluntary severance package which is nearly unheard of in any company, anywhere. In my position, at my pay grade, this would mean seven and a half months of salary, in addition to a year's worth of benefits continuation. Amazing, and - a couple of years ago - a possible no-brainer.
Unfortunately, were I to take the offer now, it would be into what kind of job climate, with what sort of prospects? In a good economy, I fear my ability to make a lateral move and make a salary anywhere near what I have labored over building up over my past seven years at my current place of work. While I have not gotten well-to-do (by U.S. standards), it has allowed Sharon to stay at home with Rose and for us to have a general expectation of being able to meet our financial obligations, month-to-month. At present, my plan is to sit tight and not opt for the vluntary termination; and to desperately hope that enough others do in order to avoid the following eventuality of the involuntary round of layoffs. Things working in my favor is my - by all reasonable estimation - unique function and role of support in the company, as well as the relative pittance I am paid, compared to the innumerable "directors" and "project managers" that have been aquired and shuffled around in this extremely top-heavy building in my time here.
So - if things go well for me and I'm here in another two months, then what? It's no secret that - comfortable as I am - corporate culture is just something to which I'm not hard-wired to assimilate. In addition, though I love geography and - indeed - a large part of what I do, day to day; I fear a future in which my career path is inextricably bound to my ablility to seek out and master new technologies. What I have come to understand about GIS over time is that my love leans about 90% towards the first letter of that acronym, and about 10% towards the second two. I am, at heart, an old-fashioned academic, who would much rather be reading in an old, leather-bound chair, than walking about with a bluetooth headset sticking out of my ear discussion with a regional sales rep the extensions for the latest service pack of ArcGIS 9.6. That's no way for a man - a man like me - to enter the second half of his working adult life.
If I get involuntarily laid off, my severance package comes with an extensive set of services with an outplacement firm; one that specializes in putting you on the fast track to something-or-rather and all kinds of buzzwords that ordinarily make my skin craw. But a firm of which I will totally avail myself in order to get some type of GIS job that will get me back in the ranks of the employed.
In the meantime - this was a bonfire under my ass (where, earlier this year, there was but a spark). Volumes of research support the theory that the notorious "seven-year itch" is not mere cockahooery, but an actual, verifiable rhythm to our lives. I got out of college at 23. At around 30, I made a career change into the GIS field. Now, at 37, that may be about to run its course. In looking at where my life may go from here, Sharon advises me that when I start exploring my options, I need to start by thinking about what I really want to do, not what I reasonably think I could get. And then take the steps I need to get there. As opposed to, say, when I went back to graduate school to get an MGIS because I happened to be in the GIS field and was feeling inadequate because I didn't have a degree to prove I belonged.
I spoke for awhile today with a career coach, and will be meeting with her on January 8 for the first of what will probably be a number of sessions. More to follow, undoubtedly.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Monday, December 08, 2008
Near-Perfect Christmas Weekend
It began Friday night with the annual neighborhood "Holiday on 44th" celebration which is, like, the biggest thing in Camden.
Sharon & I were both actually involved in the festival, as I was performing a 15-minute show each hour on the hour at The Warren (actually "borrowed" from a Round Town Players company-developed piece from 22 years ago, if you can believe it), and Sharon was performing in neighborhood choir.
(me, 2nd from right, in the role of "Dad")
Sharon & I were both actually involved in the festival, as I was performing a 15-minute show each hour on the hour at The Warren (actually "borrowed" from a Round Town Players company-developed piece from 22 years ago, if you can believe it), and Sharon was performing in neighborhood choir.
(me, 2nd from right, in the role of "Dad")Lucy and Rose were with an aunt, though, and got to enjoy themselves up and down the street, which was, appropriately receiving a gentle Christmassy snowfall. One of the attractions I would have made it to, had I not been engaged in my performance, was Steamworks, where father Christmas was making one of his many December appearances.
During the course of the rest of the weekend, we managed to get our tree up (where my task is similar to that of Rudoph's "Bumble:" simply putting the highest ornaments up there), listened to a lot of Christmas music, including a rebroadcast of the St. Olaf Christmas festival, and watching the Bing Crosby/Danny Kaye musical, "White Christmas."
Good times.
Saturday, December 06, 2008
The Smooch Project
The girls and I (sans Sharon, who was visiting relatives in St. Cloud) stopped over at the Warren after having coffee this morning, to check out a Holiday art fair.
Set up at the event were a couple of photographers from The Smooch Project, who were looking for prospective subjects. If you have a heart at all, you'll probably get a kick by checking out the site; some 18 thousand skilled photographers are trying to capture gallery-quality images of people with genuine affection for one another (or their pets) in the act of smooching, in an effort to (in a small way) combat the "cynicism & terror" that abounds in the world. The photos are all kissing on the cheek, which is pretty much only a sweet act; as opposed to full mouth-on-mouth kissing, which has the potential to put-off folks with midwestern sensibilities.
Anyway, Lucy & Rose & I went up to take part in a 10-minute session which was apparently so cute that the entire staff & patronage of the art fair was looking over and "ahhh"-ing each time a shot was taken (particularly once I was out of the picture and the girls were just smooching each other over and over).
Looking forward to the results of the session and to see if we make the final cut, which is extremely selective: only 10 thousand photos will be in the final cut; which is less than one per photographer. Anyway - I do recommend checking out the site. I can't look at the photos in those existing galleries without smiling. I check back there from time to time, when I'm feeling down.
Set up at the event were a couple of photographers from The Smooch Project, who were looking for prospective subjects. If you have a heart at all, you'll probably get a kick by checking out the site; some 18 thousand skilled photographers are trying to capture gallery-quality images of people with genuine affection for one another (or their pets) in the act of smooching, in an effort to (in a small way) combat the "cynicism & terror" that abounds in the world. The photos are all kissing on the cheek, which is pretty much only a sweet act; as opposed to full mouth-on-mouth kissing, which has the potential to put-off folks with midwestern sensibilities.
Anyway, Lucy & Rose & I went up to take part in a 10-minute session which was apparently so cute that the entire staff & patronage of the art fair was looking over and "ahhh"-ing each time a shot was taken (particularly once I was out of the picture and the girls were just smooching each other over and over).
Looking forward to the results of the session and to see if we make the final cut, which is extremely selective: only 10 thousand photos will be in the final cut; which is less than one per photographer. Anyway - I do recommend checking out the site. I can't look at the photos in those existing galleries without smiling. I check back there from time to time, when I'm feeling down.
Friday, December 05, 2008
National Day of Listening
National Public Radio recently made a push for establishing a National Day of Listening, November 28, as part of their StoryCorps project; attempting to create an audio archive of people's oral histories and stories at the Library of Congress.
Knowing that my dad had some pretty amazing experiences in his younger years; athletically, in the army during the Korean War, and then living overseas; I proposed to him the idea of an interview on my trip down to Waterloo this past Friday.
Surprisingly, he accepted.
So, I brought down the recording gear and, with Lucy falling asleep in a sleeping bag, and my mom listening on the couch, I began a conversation with my dad. My "live interview" skills are certainly not in practice, and things were a little shaky near the very beginning, but we soon got into the flow and before we knew it, the session had stretched to about 90 minutes - and he had only gotten through his army service (about age 22 or 23).
Not sure if you can make it through all, much, or even some of these audio streams; but I do find them to be pretty facsinating. My dad, once you get past the quirks in his style of speech and some of his Kansas-isms, has a really nice speaking voice and is a pretty good storyteller. A few things in here I'd never heard; and some moments surprised me (overcome by emotion for a couple of seconds when telling of a friend that was killed by a land mine in Korea); and a lot of it is damned good classic history - how town-based baseball teams were structured as opposed to today's farm system; life in the Army in 1951; etc.
Anyway - if and when you have the chance, plug in the phones and have a spin.
Knowing that my dad had some pretty amazing experiences in his younger years; athletically, in the army during the Korean War, and then living overseas; I proposed to him the idea of an interview on my trip down to Waterloo this past Friday.
Surprisingly, he accepted.
So, I brought down the recording gear and, with Lucy falling asleep in a sleeping bag, and my mom listening on the couch, I began a conversation with my dad. My "live interview" skills are certainly not in practice, and things were a little shaky near the very beginning, but we soon got into the flow and before we knew it, the session had stretched to about 90 minutes - and he had only gotten through his army service (about age 22 or 23).
Not sure if you can make it through all, much, or even some of these audio streams; but I do find them to be pretty facsinating. My dad, once you get past the quirks in his style of speech and some of his Kansas-isms, has a really nice speaking voice and is a pretty good storyteller. A few things in here I'd never heard; and some moments surprised me (overcome by emotion for a couple of seconds when telling of a friend that was killed by a land mine in Korea); and a lot of it is damned good classic history - how town-based baseball teams were structured as opposed to today's farm system; life in the Army in 1951; etc.
Anyway - if and when you have the chance, plug in the phones and have a spin.
Monday, December 01, 2008
Trimming Off the Loose Ends
For years, I'd been slowly working away at, but mostly fretting about, the archiving of old 35mm negatives. Using a backlighted negative viewer, and with a set of negative sleeves I'd bought, I was slowly trying to get the shoebox full of them in chronological order, same as the actual photos that were in my photo albums.
Then, one day, I took the whole shoebox and threw it in the trash.
One project out of the way.
Similiarly, for many years, I'd had this dream/plan of recreating an Advent calendar my mom had made for us in my youth. With a multi-windowed house made out of different pieces of decorated felt, with pictures cut out from Christmas cards behind each window, it was a source of great thrill and anticipation, come each December. With Lucy now up to age five, and Rose at two; time was really getting on when I had to fish or cut bait.
I opted for the latter, finally taking the file folder of Christmas cards I'd been saving for years and dumping them right in the recycling bin. I found an awesome advent calendar (see below), with a set of 24 wooden doors containing magnetic figures of Jesus' family, stars, barn animals, wise men, etc. etc. to equip a full-fledged nativity on a metal background. It's wonderful.
Ah, it's nice to finally get some long-standing projects out of the way.
Friday, November 28, 2008
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Mid-Life Crisis...Over?
Thank God...some men do some pretty crazy shit that they probably spend the rest of their lives regretting.
Now - I don't want to say my theatre (or performance, in general) career is over, but I am sitting here (Sat. Nov. 22, 2008) realizing that I may have spent the last couple of years of my life in pursuit of something that is ultimately a lot less fulfilling than the time I spend at home, with my family and personal pursuits that can be indulged within the four walls of my own home (e.g. music listening and - hopefully - making, movie watching, crazy little projects ala "Johnny Seedcorn," etc.).
This all came about quite recently. I was actually in the weekend prior to the auditions for our spring show (which I was planning on being in), when there was a malfunction with the regulator on my dad's oxygen unit. Ultimately false alarm, but for a short bit there, I was faced with the reality that I could be put in an extremely difficult position, were he to take a serious turn for the worse in the middle of my production or performance schedule. A risk that suddenly seemed not at all worth taking. I need to be subject to head out of town at any given moment, were I to be needed in Iowa over the next couple of years.
But, upon pulling out of the commitment for the upcoming show, I felt a great weight lifted from my heart. I'd been subconsciously dreading the time away from my family and actually feeling some premature guilt in anticipation of the busy schedule that would be pulling me away. Since then, I've been enjoying time with my kids about as much as I can remember, and spending a lot of time doing whatever the hell strikes my fancy, for entertainment, after the kids go to bed; not feeling all stressed out about cramming "responsible things" or "making progress" on some home improvement project into every second of my free time. Weird - not all that long ago, I'd been torturing myself with thoughts of "When am I going to have the chance to get on stage again?!" Now, I'm seeing that way of thinking almost like it was some kind of stranger. What was I trying to prove, and to whom? Ah, well, such is the roller coaster of hot & cold that is Dan.
All I know is that the past two weeks have been like a like a friggin vacation (including the T-Clog visit which - by the way - may have been about my favorite Cory visit ever - thanks, Clog!!!), and I don't want it to end.
Sitting here, at 5:50 pm, having spent the majority of the day with my kids preparing for Sharon's birthday celebration tomorrow, and finally having been given an hour to hole myself up in the computer room, listening to iTunes shuffle with headphones, blogging, and stealing a few games of FreeCell; sipping a Summit Winter Ale.
Cheers!
Now - I don't want to say my theatre (or performance, in general) career is over, but I am sitting here (Sat. Nov. 22, 2008) realizing that I may have spent the last couple of years of my life in pursuit of something that is ultimately a lot less fulfilling than the time I spend at home, with my family and personal pursuits that can be indulged within the four walls of my own home (e.g. music listening and - hopefully - making, movie watching, crazy little projects ala "Johnny Seedcorn," etc.).
This all came about quite recently. I was actually in the weekend prior to the auditions for our spring show (which I was planning on being in), when there was a malfunction with the regulator on my dad's oxygen unit. Ultimately false alarm, but for a short bit there, I was faced with the reality that I could be put in an extremely difficult position, were he to take a serious turn for the worse in the middle of my production or performance schedule. A risk that suddenly seemed not at all worth taking. I need to be subject to head out of town at any given moment, were I to be needed in Iowa over the next couple of years.
But, upon pulling out of the commitment for the upcoming show, I felt a great weight lifted from my heart. I'd been subconsciously dreading the time away from my family and actually feeling some premature guilt in anticipation of the busy schedule that would be pulling me away. Since then, I've been enjoying time with my kids about as much as I can remember, and spending a lot of time doing whatever the hell strikes my fancy, for entertainment, after the kids go to bed; not feeling all stressed out about cramming "responsible things" or "making progress" on some home improvement project into every second of my free time. Weird - not all that long ago, I'd been torturing myself with thoughts of "When am I going to have the chance to get on stage again?!" Now, I'm seeing that way of thinking almost like it was some kind of stranger. What was I trying to prove, and to whom? Ah, well, such is the roller coaster of hot & cold that is Dan.
All I know is that the past two weeks have been like a like a friggin vacation (including the T-Clog visit which - by the way - may have been about my favorite Cory visit ever - thanks, Clog!!!), and I don't want it to end.
Sitting here, at 5:50 pm, having spent the majority of the day with my kids preparing for Sharon's birthday celebration tomorrow, and finally having been given an hour to hole myself up in the computer room, listening to iTunes shuffle with headphones, blogging, and stealing a few games of FreeCell; sipping a Summit Winter Ale.
Cheers!
Friday, November 21, 2008
Nearest Book Thing
(with thanks to Facebook)
Rules:
* Grab the book nearest you. Right now.
* Turn to page 56.
* Find the fifth sentence.
* Post that sentence in a comment, here.
* Don't dig for your favorite book, the coolest, the most intellectual. Use the CLOSEST.
I'll go first with the one I needed to use when posed this question in Facebook, moments ago, though it's not too exciting.
Rules:
* Grab the book nearest you. Right now.
* Turn to page 56.
* Find the fifth sentence.
* Post that sentence in a comment, here.
* Don't dig for your favorite book, the coolest, the most intellectual. Use the CLOSEST.
I'll go first with the one I needed to use when posed this question in Facebook, moments ago, though it's not too exciting.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
The Year of the Podcast
Just as 1999 was my Year of Basketball and 2001 was probably The Year of Baldur's Gate.
Crazy levels of wonkery. Sharon & I listening to political podcasts while doing household chores and/or putting Rose down for the night, then discussing what we've heard. I'll miss the late night Sarah Palin "jam sessions," but the wonkery will continue as the Obama cabinet fills up and legislation is initated.
On a side note - if any of you do get regular podcasts, and political ones at that, if you get a single one, make sure it is NPR's "It's all Politics" with Ken Rudin and Ron Elving. You don't learn a ton, if you've been paying attention for the week, but they ARE the CarTalk guys of politics.
Second favorite political podcast: Slate's Political Gabfest.
Other oft-listened to casts: NPR's "Wait Wait, Don't Tell Me" and "Radio Lab," as well as MPR midmorning shows that I've missed (which are few). And "The Economist" magazine's look at the week ahead.
All on a little $25 Sansa Express mp3 player.
Did this year kick off a lifestyle I will keep for all time? Hard telling. Probably in some fashion or another. It's just crazy that my five year old daughter asks if my "podcaster is charging?" Sounds insanely 21st century (from a 20th century perspective). But little did I know in my youth about DVDs, digital file sharing, or using computers to look up everything. It is what it is and that is a brave new world.
Crazy levels of wonkery. Sharon & I listening to political podcasts while doing household chores and/or putting Rose down for the night, then discussing what we've heard. I'll miss the late night Sarah Palin "jam sessions," but the wonkery will continue as the Obama cabinet fills up and legislation is initated.
On a side note - if any of you do get regular podcasts, and political ones at that, if you get a single one, make sure it is NPR's "It's all Politics" with Ken Rudin and Ron Elving. You don't learn a ton, if you've been paying attention for the week, but they ARE the CarTalk guys of politics.
Second favorite political podcast: Slate's Political Gabfest.
Other oft-listened to casts: NPR's "Wait Wait, Don't Tell Me" and "Radio Lab," as well as MPR midmorning shows that I've missed (which are few). And "The Economist" magazine's look at the week ahead.
All on a little $25 Sansa Express mp3 player.
Did this year kick off a lifestyle I will keep for all time? Hard telling. Probably in some fashion or another. It's just crazy that my five year old daughter asks if my "podcaster is charging?" Sounds insanely 21st century (from a 20th century perspective). But little did I know in my youth about DVDs, digital file sharing, or using computers to look up everything. It is what it is and that is a brave new world.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Monday, November 17, 2008
Another Year...
Another toast to the man (or woman) who invented the mulching mower.
Wow. What would have been about as six hour leaf-raking job that would have used rarely-used muscles resulting in a half week of soreness was a two hour mowing job over the weekend. Plus, we have a nice layer of mulch on our grass, some extra mulch for the garden and our new alfalfa & oat patch (back where the gravel used to be), and contribute nothing to the Minneapolis Munincipal Waste process.
Wow. What would have been about as six hour leaf-raking job that would have used rarely-used muscles resulting in a half week of soreness was a two hour mowing job over the weekend. Plus, we have a nice layer of mulch on our grass, some extra mulch for the garden and our new alfalfa & oat patch (back where the gravel used to be), and contribute nothing to the Minneapolis Munincipal Waste process.
Friday, November 14, 2008
The Visit...
It looks like T-Clog has picked up the torch of Official Recounter (it seems to be the mode for the visitor to recount the trip, and not the visitee), so I won't spend a lot of time here, in this forum.
Not worrying about that, also, has freed me up to do some video editing. As soon as Amish Internet Boy can find a way to send me two 10-second video clips to use for special features, I will be ready to burn and send out a feature-length movie we made Saturday night.
I don't want to set the bar too high, but I'm just going to say it: "BETTER THAN MOSSYBACK!"
Not worrying about that, also, has freed me up to do some video editing. As soon as Amish Internet Boy can find a way to send me two 10-second video clips to use for special features, I will be ready to burn and send out a feature-length movie we made Saturday night.
I don't want to set the bar too high, but I'm just going to say it: "BETTER THAN MOSSYBACK!"
Friday, November 07, 2008
urp...
I’ve been eating so much Halloween candy that people brought into the office that I’ve actually taken to sprinkling the wrappers into various trash cans that are not my own, in order to minimize the evidence of my own horrifying crapulence.
Of course, I do not forsee doing my body too many favors this coming weekend, either.
Let's see: 4:54. About one hour till supper. And about five hours till a second, larger supper of pizza and (Crazy Bread Equivalent).
Of course, I do not forsee doing my body too many favors this coming weekend, either.
Let's see: 4:54. About one hour till supper. And about five hours till a second, larger supper of pizza and (Crazy Bread Equivalent).
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
Now on to Other Business: WSDACD (An Open Thread)
T-Clog visiting Dan this weekend. What should they do for their version of NSE?
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
Patrying with Whom? And When? And Where?
For me, nothing too special. Hopefully, I won't miss out on too much excitement, as I work to put one or the other of my daughters to bed. Should be free to glue myself to PBS by eight or so.
Shortly thereafter, partying with Sharon, hopefully. I have a super-special 1L bottle of beer (I don't even remember what at this point - isn't that funny?) I just asked Sharon to throw in the fridge. We'll drink some beer. I may call Mixx around 9-ish CST.
Tomorrow? I'd debated coming in at all. I think I will, but somewhat leisurely, I think. There's likely to be a festive mood in North Minneapolis on the morrow.
Of course, if the 1.1% chance of the unthinkable comes to pass tonight, all bets are off. Though the beer consumption may even be greater.
Shortly thereafter, partying with Sharon, hopefully. I have a super-special 1L bottle of beer (I don't even remember what at this point - isn't that funny?) I just asked Sharon to throw in the fridge. We'll drink some beer. I may call Mixx around 9-ish CST.
Tomorrow? I'd debated coming in at all. I think I will, but somewhat leisurely, I think. There's likely to be a festive mood in North Minneapolis on the morrow.
Of course, if the 1.1% chance of the unthinkable comes to pass tonight, all bets are off. Though the beer consumption may even be greater.
Monday, November 03, 2008
Friday, October 31, 2008
Survey Says...
Movies that were in my queue that I just deleted.
My Netflix queue, over time, has become rife with a particular couple of subsets of movies - particularly of both the documentary and "eclectic arthouse" varieties - that are in there because, though the subject matter is fascinating, they are ultimately movies I feel that I should see.
It took me a long time to get over feelings of guilt for simply bumping a movie back a few places in the queue. Now I'm finally at a point of liberation; realizing I don't have anything to prove to anyone, least of all myself.
Perhaps my schedule will clear up and the tiny hedonistic bucket wtihin me will be filled and I will seek out "Why We Fight" again, someday. But for the meantime, I'm going to charge forward with only movies I will be genuinely excited to see in my mailbox, and enjoy life a little more.
My Netflix queue, over time, has become rife with a particular couple of subsets of movies - particularly of both the documentary and "eclectic arthouse" varieties - that are in there because, though the subject matter is fascinating, they are ultimately movies I feel that I should see.
It took me a long time to get over feelings of guilt for simply bumping a movie back a few places in the queue. Now I'm finally at a point of liberation; realizing I don't have anything to prove to anyone, least of all myself.
Perhaps my schedule will clear up and the tiny hedonistic bucket wtihin me will be filled and I will seek out "Why We Fight" again, someday. But for the meantime, I'm going to charge forward with only movies I will be genuinely excited to see in my mailbox, and enjoy life a little more.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
A Puzzle For You...
What do the following eighteen movies have in common?
1. Oldboy
2. Mysterious Skin
3. Why We Fight
4. Smoke
5. Running with Scissors
6. The Goebbels Experiment
7. Confetti
8. Daddy's Little Girls
9. Sweet Land
10. Ghost World
11. Chalk
12. Rocket Science
13. Little Big Man
14. Greenfingers
15. Romance and Cigarettes
16. Kurt Cobain: About a Son
17. Boys Don't Cry
18. Beautiful Thing
1. Oldboy
2. Mysterious Skin
3. Why We Fight
4. Smoke
5. Running with Scissors
6. The Goebbels Experiment
7. Confetti
8. Daddy's Little Girls
9. Sweet Land
10. Ghost World
11. Chalk
12. Rocket Science
13. Little Big Man
14. Greenfingers
15. Romance and Cigarettes
16. Kurt Cobain: About a Son
17. Boys Don't Cry
18. Beautiful Thing
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
A Rosie Compendia
This coming weekend, little Rosie will hit the 2-year milestone. In light of my dad's condition, they're not going to be able to make it up to share in the planned festivities, so I put together this 12 month to 24 month retrospective of some favorite shots of my littlest girl; which I'm now happy to "share out."
Truly, she is my "littlest girl." Note the scant size difference between her and Audrey, who was born over the summer.
And enjoy!
Truly, she is my "littlest girl." Note the scant size difference between her and Audrey, who was born over the summer.
And enjoy!
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| Rose: Age One Retrospective |
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
The Official Word on Jack
So, more officially, we know that my dad has the mysterious and insidious “Pulmonary Fibrosis.” Progressive, terminal, and no cure; with the average life expectancy after the onset being 2-4 years.
I've been more or less mentally preparing myself for the concept that my dad does not have a lot of time left here with us. But this kind of smacked me in the face, yesterday. Especially, the dredging up of my own past regrets of not being able to get to know my grandparents until they were very, very old (and a couple of them, much at all), and the knowledge that - in all likelihood - Rose will never remember the grandad with the twinkle in his eye. And Lucy is just going to remember this old man with chapped hands and tubes going into his nose that sat in a chair in the corner of the living room.
Tangentally...cause I don't want this to be nothing but a bummer of a post...
I just finished the documentary "49 Up," last night. And the timing couldn't have been more perfect. Checking in every seven years on about fifteen different lives, from the time they were seven until age 49. In the special features, the filmmaker (the same guy through all 42 years) spoke of these folks' collective transformations through the years, and how they all coalesced at a point when they were about 35 (me, being 37), when their parents (and lots of relatives and peers of their parents) started to die and they are first beginning to be faced with a sens of their own aging and mentality.
I'm looking forward to the peaceful acceptance they all got back to, by age 49.
I've been more or less mentally preparing myself for the concept that my dad does not have a lot of time left here with us. But this kind of smacked me in the face, yesterday. Especially, the dredging up of my own past regrets of not being able to get to know my grandparents until they were very, very old (and a couple of them, much at all), and the knowledge that - in all likelihood - Rose will never remember the grandad with the twinkle in his eye. And Lucy is just going to remember this old man with chapped hands and tubes going into his nose that sat in a chair in the corner of the living room.
Tangentally...cause I don't want this to be nothing but a bummer of a post...
I just finished the documentary "49 Up," last night. And the timing couldn't have been more perfect. Checking in every seven years on about fifteen different lives, from the time they were seven until age 49. In the special features, the filmmaker (the same guy through all 42 years) spoke of these folks' collective transformations through the years, and how they all coalesced at a point when they were about 35 (me, being 37), when their parents (and lots of relatives and peers of their parents) started to die and they are first beginning to be faced with a sens of their own aging and mentality.
I'm looking forward to the peaceful acceptance they all got back to, by age 49.
Thursday, October 23, 2008
A Foreign Affair: Pass It Along
OK, so those few readers of The Oliopolis know that my preference is to use my posts more as a journal, or as a forum for my assorted musings and ruminations, as opposed to propogating media I may have come across elsewhere in this e-world.
However, an article I just read, by Jonathan Freeman from The Guardian, struck such a powerful chord with me, I feel compelled to pass it along in hopes it will inspire others to consider the sentiment, and pass it along as well.
It very eloquently lays out the heart of an issue I find to be of great important, but about which I have seen very little discussion: that of the profound impact the selection of our next president will have, not just within our borders, but from without. In these days where we Americans - and indeed all Global Citizens, find ourselves at the brink on so many fronts - from (as is becoming increasingly apparent) our entertwined world economy; to the "War on Terror;" to arguably the most ominous issue of all, climate change; this election is, indeed, a referendum on America's collective sanity, cause for an optimistic future, and grasp on reality. The world is watching.
So, with no further ado:
A FOREIGN AFFAIR
Jonathan Freedland, "The Guardian"
If Sarah Palin defies the conventional wisdom that says elections are determined by the top of the ticket, and somehow wins this for McCain, what will be the reaction? Yes, blue - state America will go into mourning once again, feeling estranged in its own country. A generation of young Americans - who back Obama in big numbers - will turn cynical, concluding that politics doesn't work after all. And, most depressing, many African - Americans will decide that if even Barack Obama - with all his conspicuous gifts - could not win, then no black man can ever be elected president.
But what of the rest of the world? This is the reaction I fear most. For Obama has stirred an excitement around the globe unmatched by any American politician in living memory. Polling in Germany , France, Britain and Russia shows that Obama would win by whopping majorities, with the pattern repeated in Africa, Asia, the Middle East and Latin America . If November 4 were a global ballot, Obama would win it handsomely. If the free world could choose its leader, it would be Barack Obama.
The crowd of 200,000 that rallied to hear him in Berlin in July did so not only because of his charisma, but also because they know he, like the majority of the world's population, opposed the Iraq war. McCain supported it, peddling the lie that Saddam was linked to 9/11. Non - Americans sense that Obama will not ride roughshod over the international system but will treat alliances and global institutions seriously: McCain wants to bypass the United Nations in favour of a US - friendly League of Democracies. McCain might talk a good game on climate change, but a repeated floor chant at the Republican convention was "Drill, baby, drill!", as if the solution to global warming were not a radical rethink of the US's entire energy system but more offshore oil rigs.
If Americans choose McCain, they will be turning their back on the rest of the world, choosing to show us four more years of the Bush - Cheney finger. And I predict a deeply unpleasant shift.
Until now, anti - Americanism has been exaggerated and much
misunderstood: outside a leftist hardcore, it has mostly been anti - Bushism, opposition to this specific administration. But if McCain wins in November, that might well change. Suddenly Europeans and others will conclude that their dispute is with not only one ruling clique, but Americans themselves. For it will have been the American people, not the politicians, who will have passed up a once - in - a - generation chance for a fresh start - a fresh start the world is yearning for.
And the manner of that decision will matter, too. If it is deemed to have been about race - that Obama was rejected because of his colour - the world's verdict will be harsh. In that circumstance, Slate's Jacob Weisberg wrote recently, international opinion would conclude that "the United States had its day, but in the end couldn't put its own self - interest ahead of its crazy irrationality over race.
Even if it's not ethnic prejudice, but some other aspect of the culture wars, that proves decisive, the point still holds. For America to make a decision as grave as this one - while the planet boils and with the US fighting two wars - on the trivial basis that a hockey mom is likable and seems down to earth, would be to convey a lack of seriousness, a fleeing from reality, that does indeed suggest a nation in, to quote Weisberg, "historical decline". Let's not forget,McCain's campaign manager boasts that this election is "not about the issues."
Of course I know that even to mention Obama's support around the world is to hurt him. Incredibly, that large Berlin crowd damaged Obama at home, branding him the "candidate of Europe " and making him seem less of a patriotic American. But what does that say about today's America , that the world's esteem is now unwanted? If Americans reject Obama, they will be sending the clearest possible message to the rest of us - and, make no mistake, we shall hear it."
However, an article I just read, by Jonathan Freeman from The Guardian, struck such a powerful chord with me, I feel compelled to pass it along in hopes it will inspire others to consider the sentiment, and pass it along as well.
It very eloquently lays out the heart of an issue I find to be of great important, but about which I have seen very little discussion: that of the profound impact the selection of our next president will have, not just within our borders, but from without. In these days where we Americans - and indeed all Global Citizens, find ourselves at the brink on so many fronts - from (as is becoming increasingly apparent) our entertwined world economy; to the "War on Terror;" to arguably the most ominous issue of all, climate change; this election is, indeed, a referendum on America's collective sanity, cause for an optimistic future, and grasp on reality. The world is watching.
So, with no further ado:
A FOREIGN AFFAIR
Jonathan Freedland, "The Guardian"
If Sarah Palin defies the conventional wisdom that says elections are determined by the top of the ticket, and somehow wins this for McCain, what will be the reaction? Yes, blue - state America will go into mourning once again, feeling estranged in its own country. A generation of young Americans - who back Obama in big numbers - will turn cynical, concluding that politics doesn't work after all. And, most depressing, many African - Americans will decide that if even Barack Obama - with all his conspicuous gifts - could not win, then no black man can ever be elected president.
But what of the rest of the world? This is the reaction I fear most. For Obama has stirred an excitement around the globe unmatched by any American politician in living memory. Polling in Germany , France, Britain and Russia shows that Obama would win by whopping majorities, with the pattern repeated in Africa, Asia, the Middle East and Latin America . If November 4 were a global ballot, Obama would win it handsomely. If the free world could choose its leader, it would be Barack Obama.
The crowd of 200,000 that rallied to hear him in Berlin in July did so not only because of his charisma, but also because they know he, like the majority of the world's population, opposed the Iraq war. McCain supported it, peddling the lie that Saddam was linked to 9/11. Non - Americans sense that Obama will not ride roughshod over the international system but will treat alliances and global institutions seriously: McCain wants to bypass the United Nations in favour of a US - friendly League of Democracies. McCain might talk a good game on climate change, but a repeated floor chant at the Republican convention was "Drill, baby, drill!", as if the solution to global warming were not a radical rethink of the US's entire energy system but more offshore oil rigs.
If Americans choose McCain, they will be turning their back on the rest of the world, choosing to show us four more years of the Bush - Cheney finger. And I predict a deeply unpleasant shift.
Until now, anti - Americanism has been exaggerated and much
misunderstood: outside a leftist hardcore, it has mostly been anti - Bushism, opposition to this specific administration. But if McCain wins in November, that might well change. Suddenly Europeans and others will conclude that their dispute is with not only one ruling clique, but Americans themselves. For it will have been the American people, not the politicians, who will have passed up a once - in - a - generation chance for a fresh start - a fresh start the world is yearning for.
And the manner of that decision will matter, too. If it is deemed to have been about race - that Obama was rejected because of his colour - the world's verdict will be harsh. In that circumstance, Slate's Jacob Weisberg wrote recently, international opinion would conclude that "the United States had its day, but in the end couldn't put its own self - interest ahead of its crazy irrationality over race.
Even if it's not ethnic prejudice, but some other aspect of the culture wars, that proves decisive, the point still holds. For America to make a decision as grave as this one - while the planet boils and with the US fighting two wars - on the trivial basis that a hockey mom is likable and seems down to earth, would be to convey a lack of seriousness, a fleeing from reality, that does indeed suggest a nation in, to quote Weisberg, "historical decline". Let's not forget,McCain's campaign manager boasts that this election is "not about the issues."
Of course I know that even to mention Obama's support around the world is to hurt him. Incredibly, that large Berlin crowd damaged Obama at home, branding him the "candidate of Europe " and making him seem less of a patriotic American. But what does that say about today's America , that the world's esteem is now unwanted? If Americans reject Obama, they will be sending the clearest possible message to the rest of us - and, make no mistake, we shall hear it."
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Saint Rocky
So, we thought getting a one-year-old cat would give us a number of years blissfully free of veterinarian bills.
Not so.
Over the course of the two months that we've had him, he's had fairly deep puncture wounds in each of his front two paws, costing (now) us upwards of $400 in assorted ver expenses (some of the expense came as a result of us having to board him during our vacation so they could administer daily meds). Two months - two wounds. Very similar. One in each paw.
Totally weird!
We were trying to figure out what's going on - weird, loose, sharp hardware or screws in the basement? Centipede bites? (we've got a doozy of a centipede living in the cracks of the foundation in the recording corner of the basement) What?
And then it hit me....STIGMATA.
Unfortunately, according to Sharon, the Catholic Church does not provide any sort of cash reward for manifesting the crucifixion wounds of Jesus. Something about the reward being "the edification of the spirit" or something.
Whatever.
Not so.
Over the course of the two months that we've had him, he's had fairly deep puncture wounds in each of his front two paws, costing (now) us upwards of $400 in assorted ver expenses (some of the expense came as a result of us having to board him during our vacation so they could administer daily meds). Two months - two wounds. Very similar. One in each paw.
Totally weird!
We were trying to figure out what's going on - weird, loose, sharp hardware or screws in the basement? Centipede bites? (we've got a doozy of a centipede living in the cracks of the foundation in the recording corner of the basement) What?
And then it hit me....STIGMATA.
Unfortunately, according to Sharon, the Catholic Church does not provide any sort of cash reward for manifesting the crucifixion wounds of Jesus. Something about the reward being "the edification of the spirit" or something.
Whatever.
Monday, October 13, 2008
Al Raton
Lucy lost her first tooth over the weekend. With it loose over the past couple of weeks, she’s been preparing for her first visit from a tooth fairy contemporary. We checked out a book about different losing-teeth traditions around the world, and she picked up one from Latin America where you put your tooth in a glass of water and a rat named El Ratón visits in the middle of the night, drinks the water, takes the tooth and leaves candy or money.
I’m pretty sure she thinks the rat’s name is Al Ratón, which makes him sound like a burly NYC sewer worker with plumber’s crack.
Thursday, October 09, 2008
Bear Head, As I Recall It, Sitting Here Satisfied and Re-Charged: Part 5
Or, a Trip to Bear Head Lake State Park
Thursday, Oct. 1: Get Out of There!, Dan Gets His Walleye, and....My Friends....
Special "Webinar" Edition
Episode 2: Dan Gets His Walleye
Episode 3: ...My Friends...
Thursday, Oct. 1: Get Out of There!, Dan Gets His Walleye, and....My Friends....
Special "Webinar" Edition
Episode 1: Get Out of There!
Episode 2: Dan Gets His Walleye
Episode 3: ...My Friends...
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Bear Head, As I Recall It, Sitting Here, Satisfied and Re-Charged: Part 4
Or, A Trip to Bear Head Lake State Park
Wednesday, Oct. 1: Kick-Down Mode
One of the surest proofs that I simply do not belong in the workaday world is how seamlessly I slip into a comfort zone during extended times away from work. Not only am I disengaged from what is going on back in the office, I believe my brain would short-circuit, were I to try to listen in on messages from afar. So, on the third full day of the North Woods adventure, I was wholly and truly taking it all in and content in going with the flow.
Weather reports from the International Wolf Center had suggested a progressively drier forecast for the remainder of the week; and our loose plan was to have a leisurely breakfast at camp, then head out for a family hike & picnic around the piney hill-surrounded trout lake, Lake Norberg; around which Sharon had scouted during her trail run two days prior.
When we got out there, things had truly dried out enough that we were able to enjoy alternating 
skies of fast-moving stratocumulus clouds with with brilliant streaks of fall sun. A short, vertical hike brought us to, perhaps, the visual feast of the trip. It was simply spectacular, as this striking and ever-changing light display I described played amidst the tree color (which was hitting peak) and innumerable ripples on the pristine lake. We spent some time there while the kids (much more concerned with the world on a macro level) noticed minnows in the water and a young water spider trying in vain to make a lunch from them.
We then hiked around two directions of the lake from our starting point, getting mulitple perspectives almost all the while keeping within sight of Norberg; and at some point during which we ate a big ol' lunch.
Afternoon included another trail run by Sharon, I think, as well as another failed fishing attempt by me. My second solo foray to the lake was not so buffoonish, and a little more satisfying. Truly, my expectations for a catch were different (non-existent?); but I was there to appreciate the solitude which - of course - can be a bit hard to come by with the girls in tow. For the rest of the afternoon, it kept truly looking like the skies were going to clear out for good on this, the final day of our stay. The last remnants of clouds would disappear to the southeast, opening up a brilliant, completely blue sky...only to have a rolling mass of gray and white utterly obscuring the sky, not more than 20 minutes later. While I concede that I'm usually not in a position to follow such things as completely; I'm not sure I've ever seen such an odd, alternating (and, yes, tantalizing) display of rain-heavy cloud cover and blue skies as I did over the final two days of our stay. Most of the pictures we brought back were taken in sunlight. You'd never know.
Anyway - homemade pita pizza for supper (yum! though the portions could have been bigger for a hungry woodsman like myself) and Raspberry Crumble for desert. Yes. THAT raspberry crumble. The same package we bought for Escalante, three years ago; and that I was conned into paying for upon our return. Well, the laugh is on you, my friends: it was delicious.
By the very end of supper - of course - it was beginning to look like skies were clearing up, finally, for good. Sharon & I made a discreet plan to meet back out by the smouldering firepit after the girls were asleep for our first opportunity at stargazing in the entire vacation. I'd actually found a 70x telescope & tripod at a thrift store recently, and we'd brought it along with - thus far - absolutely no chance to use it.So...girls to bed and, after a little bit, they fell asleep. Sharon & I snuck outside and sat next to the fire, which we stoked with a couple of new logs. How nice! Looking up at the sky, we saw stars, but...curiously, they weren't as brilliant as we were expecting. Then less brilliant. Then hardly visible. Ah, cloud cover was obviously moving in. Final proof of this was when the first few drops of rain (you're effing kidding me!) began to come down on us. Moments later, it was a steady rain and we were back in the cabin, nestled snugly in our bunks.
This last photo is kind of as an addendum, and I actually took it with special permission from Lucy. She'd had a really rough little patch of time, and was still quite upset, but just beginning to calm down and come into herself again.
I noticed this really tender moment when her little sister was doing her best to offer her comfort, and I asked Lucy if she minded if I took a picture. Amazingly, she did not. And now I share it with you.
It's awesome - they really seem to have a pretty special relationship.
Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Bear Head, As I Recall It, Sitting Here, Satisfied and Re-Charged: Part 3
Or, A Trip to Bear Head Lake State Park
So, we woke up to another day of threatening, misty, cloudy skies (with odd, brief moments of tantalizing sun - a theme which would continue throughout our stay); and fixed some breakfast - which varied from tasty brown sugar & cinnamon oatmeal to homemade granola throughout the week. I will take this opportunity to mention that Sharon really outdid herself in the menu planning & cooking. We ate like royalty, with varied & hearty meals.
We wrapped things up at about 20 minutes till noon, and headed off for the IWC (which really must have purchased the rights to their URL early in the game. We had a great time at the exhibit, though it was another stark, stark difference between the notion of a trip just consisting of Sharon and me (we once spent two and a half hours just looking at and reading "history of Minnesota logging" exhibits in Grand Rapids - a luxury which would now be unimaginable). We did a lot of kid-friendly exhibits (can you mimic different wolf vocalizations, and climb into a plaster wolf den?), and kind of whizzed through the more text-based and substantive parts. Then, a picnic outside and a pose with the IWC's famous pack of bronze wolves out front, then back to Bear Head.
Tuesday, Sept. 30: Coffee, Wolves, and SSSSssss - bloomp
As I mentioned, Sept. 30 is sort of the end of "prime season" in Minnesota State Parks. So it is, also, with many of the other somewhat remote facilities and attractions in northern Minnesota. As such, Tuesday was to be the final day of weekday programming at the International Wolf Center in Ely, about a 25 minute drive from our campsite. I'd never been to the center before, so didn't want to miss this opporunity; and they were offering an informal "Family Pack-Tivities" program at noon.
So, we woke up to another day of threatening, misty, cloudy skies (with odd, brief moments of tantalizing sun - a theme which would continue throughout our stay); and fixed some breakfast - which varied from tasty brown sugar & cinnamon oatmeal to homemade granola throughout the week. I will take this opportunity to mention that Sharon really outdid herself in the menu planning & cooking. We ate like royalty, with varied & hearty meals.Anyway, on this morning, alone, we skipped coffee at camp, because our plan was to make it to Ely by midmorning and, it being a somewhat tourist-y town, find a coffee shop and have a nice sit-down cup while enjoying some of the local vibe. And we found just the place in The Front Porch Coffee and Tea Company. Just the sort of "home away from home" coffee shop we look for in our travels, everywhere. Unique & artsy, free wi-fi (not that we have a wireless device, but the idea), fair trade coffee and even with a little children's corner where Lucy & Rose could play around while we sipped at leisure. I resisted the (strong) urge to read the paper and check out the political horse race and just had a nice time sipping and listening in to conversations of the locals. Great coffee, and I saw some art for sale on the wall that I was truly moved to buy. I still regret that I did not, and I've half a mind to call the shop, see if they still have it available, and pay for the shipping. It was a watercolor painting/drawing of a little girl sleeping next to a watchful bear, based on a line from a poem called "I'll Go On Trusting." I'd love to hang it up in the girls' room.
We wrapped things up at about 20 minutes till noon, and headed off for the IWC (which really must have purchased the rights to their URL early in the game. We had a great time at the exhibit, though it was another stark, stark difference between the notion of a trip just consisting of Sharon and me (we once spent two and a half hours just looking at and reading "history of Minnesota logging" exhibits in Grand Rapids - a luxury which would now be unimaginable). We did a lot of kid-friendly exhibits (can you mimic different wolf vocalizations, and climb into a plaster wolf den?), and kind of whizzed through the more text-based and substantive parts. Then, a picnic outside and a pose with the IWC's famous pack of bronze wolves out front, then back to Bear Head.Still spitty, rainy. Sharon went off for another run (more cabin-oriented fun for the kids & me). Then when she came back, I was permitted to dispense with the 
Scooby pole and try my own hand at some Grown-Up Big Game Fishing. I trespsed down to the lake with two tackle boxes in tow, as well as my rod (heh heh); and it was very evident I had not fished in the past five years. A comedy of errors, in fact. With a strategy of "working the weeds," (and on only my second cast) I hooked my favorite silver "weedless" spoon on a log that was just a little far our for me to wade to, and lost it as a result. I took it as a sign from God that I should put an enormous honking lure on and cast out to middle of the lake. I was so unprepared. It occurred to me that, were I to have hooked a northern or a walleye, they could have bit right through my measly 6 lb test line - as I did not have a metal leader at the end. So, I tied right to the lure - a big, snakeskin-ey red & gold spoon that was at least four or five inches long. I didn't have a clue what I was doing. Was the lure the right type of lure for the fish in the lake? WHAT fish were in the lake? Was the color of the lure the right type for these weather conditions and at this time of day? It occurred to me I could have researched at least some of this in the days prior to the trip.
Scooby pole and try my own hand at some Grown-Up Big Game Fishing. I trespsed down to the lake with two tackle boxes in tow, as well as my rod (heh heh); and it was very evident I had not fished in the past five years. A comedy of errors, in fact. With a strategy of "working the weeds," (and on only my second cast) I hooked my favorite silver "weedless" spoon on a log that was just a little far our for me to wade to, and lost it as a result. I took it as a sign from God that I should put an enormous honking lure on and cast out to middle of the lake. I was so unprepared. It occurred to me that, were I to have hooked a northern or a walleye, they could have bit right through my measly 6 lb test line - as I did not have a metal leader at the end. So, I tied right to the lure - a big, snakeskin-ey red & gold spoon that was at least four or five inches long. I didn't have a clue what I was doing. Was the lure the right type of lure for the fish in the lake? WHAT fish were in the lake? Was the color of the lure the right type for these weather conditions and at this time of day? It occurred to me I could have researched at least some of this in the days prior to the trip.Oh well, fishing with no real expectation of catching anything and me go way, way back; to which Mixx, in particular, can attest. There was still that fleeting sun, and a clear, pervasive silence throughout the surrounding world. The little docks and lakeshore were down a bit and out of sight from the cabin; and I couldn't even hear the kids. I strained my eyes to the other side, hoping against hope to catch sight of a careless moose wandering in the shallows, then just closed my eyes and breathed in the fresh, damp wind that filled my senses with a relaxing electricity.
Then, the cast. The very next cast (the third since I'd been at the shore).
SSSssssssssssssssss - bloomp.
My line, upon being cast out, immediately slackened and went limp, about fifty feet out across the lake surface. The gigantic lure, thanks to my ridiculous "knot," kept sailing. On and on across the lake. It came a lot closer to catching a fish in Lake Vermillion, to the West; or perhaps a loon, in mid-flight; than it did to pulling any fish out of the North Bay, that day.
I then did a little exploring around the bank, finding an old, almost submerged series of logs from an ancient dock, that extended out into the lake a bit, just down the embankment from a beautiful, hilly stand of pines. I played around with trying to create a jig with squirmy, plastic lures, but all hope of catching A Fish That Matters had fled. I just played around like a kid on his first fishing trip ever for awhile more, then headed back to the cabin.
I think it was chili for supper that night, and more attempts at having s'mores with that ratty-ass mass of marshmallows. Then off to bed. To bed at 8:30-ish was getting to be the norm. Without a doubt, had the weather been nicer, Sharon & I, at least, would have been staying up a lot later, enjoying the night sounds and the starry skies (it was in new-moon phase), and maybe even going on night hikes.
But as it was - a bit chilly and somewhat wet, going to bed seemed to be the thing to do.
Monday, October 06, 2008
Bear Head, As I Recall It, Sitting Here, Satisfied and Re-Charged: Part 2
Or, A Trip to Bear Head Lake State Park
Duh. It didn't strike me (this is amazing, really), the difference between Sharon & me renting a canoe; and Sharon, Lucy, Rose, and me renting a canoe. Not until we were sitting there in the visitor's center, trying to decide whether we would rent for a four-hour half-day or a full day. Suddenly - duh - we'll be lucky if we can be out there fifteen minutes before we have a meltdown or - God forbid, a tipping of the canoe. Are we actually going to keep these two kids seated, and in one place (the middle of the canoe), while trying to maneuver around a 700-acre lake on a somewhat windy, misty day?
Monday, Sept. 29: Canoeing, the First Day of Rainy Skies, and Thok!
The end of September is a pretty hard and fast end to summer season, as far as Minnesota State Parks are concerned. A number of running water supplies are shut off, and a number of summer rentals (specifically, canoes and other boating options) are closed down.
So we had pretty much the first two full days in Bear Head in which to get in on this fun. Interesting, that as I thought about this trip in the weeks leading up to the trip, I was bummed about the canoe rentals shutting down midway through our trip; thinking that it would have been fun to be out with the family all day, each day, enjoying the water, exploring, and fishing.
Duh. It didn't strike me (this is amazing, really), the difference between Sharon & me renting a canoe; and Sharon, Lucy, Rose, and me renting a canoe. Not until we were sitting there in the visitor's center, trying to decide whether we would rent for a four-hour half-day or a full day. Suddenly - duh - we'll be lucky if we can be out there fifteen minutes before we have a meltdown or - God forbid, a tipping of the canoe. Are we actually going to keep these two kids seated, and in one place (the middle of the canoe), while trying to maneuver around a 700-acre lake on a somewhat windy, misty day? We decided on the half-day rental.
So, with an ambitious (and precious) cargo of fishing gear, digital camera, binoculars, rain coats, and lunch for the day, the four of us set off - with a goal of simply making it from the dock symbol with the little fish under it to the two islands in the channgel to the West. Those two islands, undeveloped, are home to some nesting pairs of loons (who, unfortunately, were pretty much at the close of their prime calling season).
We circled the smaller northern one and didn't find a place that was particularly inviting as a landing place; then headed down to the south island, actually making a successful landing and disembarking. Lucy was dead set on sitting in the aft seat - which was fine, except that it resulted in me having to sit with my arse on the bottom of the canoe - getting steadily more wet and chilly, as more an more water splashed into the craft. I was working hard to not only avoid splashing Lucy as I paddled from side to side, but also to avoid dripping any more water into the canoe. This was made all the more difficult as a result of me being low down in the canoe, with my back painfully braced against a thwart. Disembarking for an early lunch was allright for me.
The island was a little, isolated world of mystery and beauty (these remote, northern Minnesota lake islands always remind me of little sub-worlds in Myst). We didn't find loon nests, but we did find some amazing mosses, lichens, and fungi; as well as some possible moose droppings. I did a little panfish fishing with Lucy's Scooby Doo pole (with the idea that, were I to hook a fish, she could reel it in). A couple of bites, and a small adventure of me taking off shoes & socks & rolling up pants to wade out in the icy cold water to dislodge a snag; but no dice. We then sat down for a lunch of hummus on pita, at the end of which little Rose, decked out in her rain gear, looked like a grizzled veteran, back from the front lines on the Bean Wars (see right).
Back into the canoe, and with a continuing ambition; this time to head down south to the now-deserted beach, for another landing, a little exploring around the tall pines, and a good pee. Again, back into the caneo with the idea we might swing up into the North Bay to see our campsite from a different vantage point; but this time I demanded the opportunity to sit on the seat of the helmsman. Lucy & I had a major disagreement over the arrangement, and Rose got into the action. I came out on top with Lucy as a result of pure logic, but Rose became nearly apoplectic - as an exact result of what, I'm still not quite sure. But she simply did not want to get down low. She did not want to sit on a tackle box as a seat, and she did not understand the principles of What-It-Takes-To-Keep-A-Canoe-From-Flipping. A few touch-and-go moments, but when settled, we had both girls laying on the bottom of the canoe (having since dried out - mostly by being mopped up by the seat of my pants), and gazing skyward. We decided to head on back to the canoe landing.
Then back to the cabin, which - incidentally - is/was much superior to the cabins at Ingawanis. 
Smaller, to be sure, but clean and utterly mouse-proof. Thank God it was a cozy little enclave, since we retreated to it many times during our stay, as an escape from the near constant threatening or actively watery skies and somewhat chilly temps.
Smaller, to be sure, but clean and utterly mouse-proof. Thank God it was a cozy little enclave, since we retreated to it many times during our stay, as an escape from the near constant threatening or actively watery skies and somewhat chilly temps. Many games of daddy climbing up the bunk ladders to "get" two squealing girls, much reading of stories, and a majority of our meals eaten at the tidy little built-in table.
At this particular time, Sharon, who is training for a 10k this next weekend, headed out for a trail run. Much daddy & daughter fun, till she returned. Then, I headed off on a trail run I'd been looking forward to for about two months.
Thok!
Extremely rocky terrain - should have been no surprised, except that I was actively watching out for the danger. Anyway - it was a kind of bad ankle turn (there would be no trail runs for me the remainder of the week), and - with heart extremely heavy, I limped on home and - as a consolation of sorts - was granted the opportunity to enjoy some kid-free meditation.
We wrapped up the afternoon with a little play around in the cabin, since it was spitting rain; and Sharon prepared the food.
The 
weather let us enough for us to get a fire going outside for s'mores, and we opened the fixins to find that we were dealing with The Worst Bag of Marshmallows in the History of Mankind. They had somehow become discombobulated and glued to one another and the interior of the bag. The only way to get at them was to slice the bag down the side, and the only way to get marshmallow out was to tear a piece away from the main hulk. And even then, they were so gooey and sticky, your fingers hands would later require excessive scrubbing to get the 'mallow off. More of it remained on your hands than you could actually mold and form around the end of your toasting stick. Unbelievable, really.
weather let us enough for us to get a fire going outside for s'mores, and we opened the fixins to find that we were dealing with The Worst Bag of Marshmallows in the History of Mankind. They had somehow become discombobulated and glued to one another and the interior of the bag. The only way to get at them was to slice the bag down the side, and the only way to get marshmallow out was to tear a piece away from the main hulk. And even then, they were so gooey and sticky, your fingers hands would later require excessive scrubbing to get the 'mallow off. More of it remained on your hands than you could actually mold and form around the end of your toasting stick. Unbelievable, really.Cub Foods brand marshmallows, if you're interested.
Sunday, October 05, 2008
Bear Head, As I Recall It, Sitting Here, Satisfied and Re-Charged: Part 1
Or, a Trip to Bear Head Lake State Park
It should be noted that iron mining is not "your father's open pit mining." While digging gigantic holes in the ground where there used to be forests can never be considered, how do you say, "good for nature," you can see, in the years after a mining operation closes up shop in a particular area, that the result appears almost more like "terraforming" than "doing a Borg." Iron mining is a relatively clean operation, as the iron - in it's pre-milling state is a relatively soft metal, and close to the surface. And it is not poisonous. Case in point: there are actually game fish stocked in the Mineview in the Sky former pit. Dare I say, the I found the site rather breathtaking.
Sunday, Sept. 28: Getting There, and Mineview in the Sky:
The previous week, with the opening of the new play fast approaching and trying to work ahead, as possible, at my job, we were really under the gun in trying to get packed and prepared. Nevertheless, we were pretty much ready to go by leaving-day; having actually even packed the car the night before with the exception of a few bare essentials.
We were ambitious in the packing with me throwing in my fishing gear (I'd not fished in about three years), as well as my daily yoga practice book and my knee brace for much-anticipated trail running. With Rose at a robust 23 months of age, we were hoping for our smoothest road trip in quite some time (even considering our expected total of four and a half hours on the road), as well as the opportunity to pursue assorted personal pleasures, free from the need to hover over kids constantly, and in a team effort.
We were able to get out of Dodge by about 9:00 am (not too shabby), and it was, indeed, a joy of a car ride, as both kids got involved in assorted freestyle art and imaginative play, all the way up I-35 past Hinckley (home of a fascinating, historic great fire, as well as the possible site of a future great fire, at Grand Casino Hinckley), past Banning State Park (where I precariously-led Sharon's 9-month pregnant belly up and down rocky, icy trails in February of '03), past Duluth (a few miles West), and up for a stop by Virginia, which lies in the heart of the Mesabi Iron Range.
Funny, but a number of years back, when I was in the process of becoming a Minnesotan and had a keen interest in geography, but pre-internet, I was a little confused by the "Mesabi Iron Range," thinking it referred to a group of large hills - possibly akin to the Ozarks of southern Missouri, but probably somehow connected to the Sawtooth "Mountain" range along the North Shore of Lake Superior. Now, I realize that the term simply refers to "range" as it relates to a geographic extent. This particular "range" is the area in which there were and still are vast deposits of iron ore, which has influenced Minnesotan political history and culture far beyond what one might expect at first glance. A majority of the historical and famous shipping trade out of the Twin Ports of Duluth (including the fateful journey of one Edmund Fitzgerald) has involved the transport of taconite pellets (iron-rich rocks) from Minnesota's iron range, the mining unions has produced an impressive rural Democratic voting block that has helped contribute Minnesota being the state that has gone longer than any other without lending its electoral votes to a Republican Presidential candidate, and the worlds biggest open pit mine is actually located right outside Hibbing. It's apparently quite a spectacle and I would loved to have seen it on this trip, but I wasn't quite that willing to trust my kids' temperment to that kind of roundabout excursion. As it was, we decided to stop by a similar, but slightly smaller, open pit mine & exhibit right outside Virginia, called Mineview in the Sky.
It should be noted that iron mining is not "your father's open pit mining." While digging gigantic holes in the ground where there used to be forests can never be considered, how do you say, "good for nature," you can see, in the years after a mining operation closes up shop in a particular area, that the result appears almost more like "terraforming" than "doing a Borg." Iron mining is a relatively clean operation, as the iron - in it's pre-milling state is a relatively soft metal, and close to the surface. And it is not poisonous. Case in point: there are actually game fish stocked in the Mineview in the Sky former pit. Dare I say, the I found the site rather breathtaking.
At that location, also, was a retired old son of a bitch who hauled over 17 million tons of taconite out of the mines for 80,000 working hours for 10 years. We paid our respects and my girls posed in front of 300,000 pound "King of the Lode."
Incidentally, this area and its industry was featured a fairly recent movie about a 70's-era sexual harassment trial, called North Country. Haven't seen it, but my impression is that it paints a very low-income impression of this blue-collar region. And there may be a history of this but - I can say only what I saw, but Viriginia was clean and friggin' well-off. Brand new big box stores (but even no-vacancy and spanking shiny strip malls), clean & fancy parks, and a well-maintained Mineview in the Sky exhibit, for crying out loud. In the midst of this shithole economy. My theory (rather uninformed, but a wild guess): rampant development in China = good to be in the steel industry.
Anyway - we'd considered stopping by the town of Tower either on the "there" or the "back again" portion of the journey, for a visit to the Soudan Mine (Minnesota's oldest, deepest underground iron mine - and now a state park); but elected on this day to continue on to our destination to try and make it before dark. About smack dab between Tower and Ely, but a few miles to the south of either, is the remote Bear Head Lake State Park, home of the lake by that name, as well as resident populations of wolves, bear, moose, and loons. A few months back, as the four night blocks of available state park camper cabins were dwindling, I'd managed to eke out this spate of time from Sept. 29 - Oct. 2. And here we were, at about 3 pm, rolling into the fruits of that forethought. Sunday night in a state park. Hardly the time when a park is buzzing - even a popular park in prime camping season. Bear Head Lake was nearly deserted. Maybe two to four other sites in use at any given time during our stay. Wonderfully quiet and remote, and our cabin was just up the hill from a beautiful little inlet from the larger lake. Colors were just getting to about 100%. The timing was excellent, except for the forecast of clouds & rain. This afternoon, anyway, there was some spotty sun, and in a little foray down to the lake, I was able to break out the fishing gear and help Lucy catch her first fish ever: two little bluegills, right near the tiny fishing dock. Note: these would be the last two fish this party would pull out of the lake.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Ivey!!!!!
This is not going to mean a lot to much of anyone, except those in local theatre circles but...my theatre company just won an "Ivey Award;" the Minneapolis equivalent of the Tony Award.
The rest of my company went to the award ceremony last night whilst I stayed home with my kids. Apparently, they announced our name and our show and it was an utter surprise to everyone. The award was for our most recent show, last spring, "'night, Mother;" and it was one of only two awards for "overall excellence" (out of one hundred and some odd theatres producing hundreds and hundreds of plays).
Apparently, Workhouse's name was read off, and our artistic director went up & gave a worldbeater speech - like, in front of the folks at the Guthrie, and Ordway Center, and de la Jeune, and Jungle Theatre, and Mixed Blood, and Brave New Workshop, and Penumbra, and Children's Theatre, etc. etc. etc. The rest of the company were holding the award in their hands backstage as they gave me a call.
This is seriously friggin' huge.
article in Star Tribune, here. (Particularly funny, since they mention 4 of the 5 companies winning awards have performance budgets under $150,000. Yeah, like about $6,000.)
article in Pioneer Press, here.
Wow.
The rest of my company went to the award ceremony last night whilst I stayed home with my kids. Apparently, they announced our name and our show and it was an utter surprise to everyone. The award was for our most recent show, last spring, "'night, Mother;" and it was one of only two awards for "overall excellence" (out of one hundred and some odd theatres producing hundreds and hundreds of plays).
Apparently, Workhouse's name was read off, and our artistic director went up & gave a worldbeater speech - like, in front of the folks at the Guthrie, and Ordway Center, and de la Jeune, and Jungle Theatre, and Mixed Blood, and Brave New Workshop, and Penumbra, and Children's Theatre, etc. etc. etc. The rest of the company were holding the award in their hands backstage as they gave me a call.
This is seriously friggin' huge.
article in Star Tribune, here. (Particularly funny, since they mention 4 of the 5 companies winning awards have performance budgets under $150,000. Yeah, like about $6,000.)
article in Pioneer Press, here.
Wow.
Ruminating on the So-Called "Career"
(and not my own)
I've sometimes wondered about the job security of some of those weird pseudo-careers, the kind which are rampant at my place of work. They're constantly developing new, specialized teams to work on new initiatives - you'll get an email that such-and-such was just "promoted to the position of "SVP Customer Creation" or "Executive Director of 'Sharing Memories'" WTF?
What happens when that initiative dries up and your job no longer exists? What's out there for you with a silly resume like that? I suppose, folks in that sort of world just have an instinctual ability glom on to whatever the next hot thing is. But I couldn't live like that.
And I wonder how much longer it is for the world.
In these times where, suddenly, so much in Wall Street and the financial world is beginning to become exposed for the charade it actually is; and we may be facing a world where we return to the nuts and bolts of what it actually takes to make the world go round - I wonder what the future holds for those folks whose expertise is in - really - nothing?
I've sometimes wondered about the job security of some of those weird pseudo-careers, the kind which are rampant at my place of work. They're constantly developing new, specialized teams to work on new initiatives - you'll get an email that such-and-such was just "promoted to the position of "SVP Customer Creation" or "Executive Director of 'Sharing Memories'" WTF?
What happens when that initiative dries up and your job no longer exists? What's out there for you with a silly resume like that? I suppose, folks in that sort of world just have an instinctual ability glom on to whatever the next hot thing is. But I couldn't live like that.
And I wonder how much longer it is for the world.
In these times where, suddenly, so much in Wall Street and the financial world is beginning to become exposed for the charade it actually is; and we may be facing a world where we return to the nuts and bolts of what it actually takes to make the world go round - I wonder what the future holds for those folks whose expertise is in - really - nothing?
Friday, September 19, 2008
Thursday, September 18, 2008
And There You Go...
Wonkerific Election Polling Blog FiveThiryEight.com (thanks Mixx), just posted a validation of my Palin post from the beginning of the week; albeit with a little more science behind it.
Here we go, boys. Contribute just a little more - do some kind of volunteering, something. Let's help Obama put his foot down on the McCain campaign's throat and finish this thing off.
Here we go, boys. Contribute just a little more - do some kind of volunteering, something. Let's help Obama put his foot down on the McCain campaign's throat and finish this thing off.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Suddenly, Feeling Better About the Whole Thing
The Palin "bounce" (so to speak) appears to have crested. Everybody who would or could ever support her did, for a couple of days.
The magic is wearing off.
People (enough people) are coming to their senses, as reality sets in.
She's beginning to embarass herself, and the McCain candidacy.
Even those who question Barack Obama's experience take him seriously; and in that regard, there is no comparison between the two of them.
McCain bet the house. Much like Kirk in The Galileo 7, he burned the rest of his rocket fuel to create a solar flare in hopes of getting noticed. He did, but now the orbit is beginning to decay.
Until the Palin selection and the Republican National Convention, I could still defend him somewhat, on some level. But no more. Oh, no more.
(McCain tangent)
Running an ad accusing Obama of teaching sex ed to Kindergarteners because he supported a bill to teach kindergarteners about inappropriate touching? You fuck. You fucking fuck. So - to be clear - the Republican Party is now the pro-molesting kids party. I mean, officially.
He has, in fact, NO HONOR. It has gone the way of his shame.
(back to Palin)
She scared the hell out of me; I'll admit it. But no more. Seven more weeks is a long time for her to avoid interviews and for not one of these percolating scandals and/or beyond-the-pales to catch fire.
Bill Clinton was right. Obama is about to take this fucker to the house.
Then, she will be a supremely confident, yet intellectually incurious, evangelical supermodel footnote in history.
Good fucking riddance, you awful, awful thing.
The magic is wearing off.
People (enough people) are coming to their senses, as reality sets in.
She's beginning to embarass herself, and the McCain candidacy.
Even those who question Barack Obama's experience take him seriously; and in that regard, there is no comparison between the two of them.
McCain bet the house. Much like Kirk in The Galileo 7, he burned the rest of his rocket fuel to create a solar flare in hopes of getting noticed. He did, but now the orbit is beginning to decay.
Until the Palin selection and the Republican National Convention, I could still defend him somewhat, on some level. But no more. Oh, no more.
(McCain tangent)
Running an ad accusing Obama of teaching sex ed to Kindergarteners because he supported a bill to teach kindergarteners about inappropriate touching? You fuck. You fucking fuck. So - to be clear - the Republican Party is now the pro-molesting kids party. I mean, officially.
He has, in fact, NO HONOR. It has gone the way of his shame.
(back to Palin)
She scared the hell out of me; I'll admit it. But no more. Seven more weeks is a long time for her to avoid interviews and for not one of these percolating scandals and/or beyond-the-pales to catch fire.
Bill Clinton was right. Obama is about to take this fucker to the house.
Then, she will be a supremely confident, yet intellectually incurious, evangelical supermodel footnote in history.
Good fucking riddance, you awful, awful thing.
Friday, September 12, 2008
100
From your whole life, from all you've ever done, felt or thought...what is the one thing you treasure most? Imagine that you must choose one single memory from your life - everything else will be erased forever. That choosing this memory is your only way of passing through to eternity. That you have one hour to choose. Choose now. October 3-18
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
I Shit You Not
One of Rose's first three-word combinations. She unveiled it last night, when being served tempe stir fry for supper:
Want...Pizza...Much
That's my girl!!!!
Want...Pizza...Much
That's my girl!!!!
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