Well - it would appeat that God, or the fates, or some weird karma -is endeavoring to test my efforts at "The Great Relax," as I have been facing a relentless string of challenges to my time & sanity over the past three weeks.
My family, which had been relatively sickness-free for the past two years, got hit in spades over the past month. Lucy, then Rose (both with croup - which led to some seriously long and arduous nights), then Sharon, then me, and then Rose again (though Rose has a couple of teeth about to come in, and some of her current condition might have something to do with that). Then, the computer goes out. A good chance to take a step back from technology, of course; but also more than a bit of an inconvenience, about a week out from the opening of my theatre company's fall show - and a ton of stuff that I simply cannot do to help prepare and follow up on; not to mention a $380 repair bill. We're in the midst of the "Rose again" phase of sickness, and neither Sharon nor I has had a great night's sleep in some time. Add to that two weeks of extra workload (one day of which resulted in me coming in at about 4 am yesterday), and no relief over the weekend, as Sharon worked. I'm running on about two weeks of little sleep and zero time to myself (sans kids) prior to 9 pm, save one night over this past weekend when I went out to see a play.
Nearly the last straw was on my drive home, yesterday, at just after 1 pm. I was heading north on I-94 a few miles south of my neck of the woods, when I heard a tremendous grating sound of something large and metallic dragging along underneath my car. I immediately took the next exit and pulled into the first parking lot I saw, at about 18th street North on Washington Ave. Not the place you want to have car troubles. Getting out, I saw what I feared: the brace holding up the muffler had broken loose and the exhaust system was just resting right on the ground. Fuck me. The parking lot was that of some nonprofit, and they were kind enough to let me use the phone to call my auto club, who told me they could have someone out within the hour. Hanging up, I realized "What are they going to do?" A tow would not really avail me, as my problem was the at the back end of the car. I wasn't sure they'd be able to affect even a rudimentary fix on the tailpipe, and I knew I didn't want to hang around that area for even an hour.
That's when they whole ship of my life may have righted itself. That's when I leapt into such action as I could take. The parking lot was right across the street from a gas station with a logo of bees buzzing around, called "The Colony." I can only imagine at the origin of the name, but the place is most truly a rotten hive of scum & villany. Nevertheless, I marched right in, bought two bungee cords (thank GOD they had bungee cords), and got back to my car, unaccosted. I did some crazy-ass shit with the cords that resulted in the exhaust system being held somewhat tenuously in place -enough for a slow, non-freeway route home. At home, I changed into running clothes, then drove the car (slowly) up to PepBoys to find out about the repair. I ran home (it was a beautiful, crisp and sunny fall day), and got a call not long after telling me the muffler was fine and that they just needed to get a new brace & install: total cost about $100, and I could have it back by the end of the day. (in the world of my financial disasters, $100 is good, good news)
I ended up having a relatively nice afternoon & night, and awoke to find some pretty cool news that may follow in an upcoming post.